Yosemite, CA

For our anniversary (the very FIRST) we decided to take some vacation and planned our first trip to Yosemite!

For this trip I knew I needed some serious R&R and really wanted a luxury experience. I had zero desire for sleeping on the ground, bugs, bears, or anything in between. We stayed at a cozy resort recommended by a friend that offered cabins, no TVs, so the experience felt authentic, while we still had convenient access to a restaurant and general store. It was a great choice, especially for our first trip into the area, where everything is extremely remote. I could do without the country music we were tortured with through every meal, but I digress!

Although the road between our resort and the valley was closed during our stay, turning what would have been a 15 minute drive into a 3 hour drive (one way), we thoroughly enjoyed the time we found to explore country roads hidden away from any tourism, especially that which would follow us over the Memorial Day weekend. Sheesh.

While everything there is absolutely gorgeous (you can’t find ugly if you try), I think the most beautiful was the private sunset photography flight over Yosemite that my sweet hubby surprised me with for our anniversary. I haven’t shot anything in a year or two (or three – the covid dark times makes the timeline hazy), and I had never shot photography (with a real camera) from a plane before so I was pretty unsure of myself going in. I figured we’d be moving fast so I needed to shoot with a fast shutter speed, so I tried to shoot at a 1/1000s, letting ISO creep up as high as 1800 at some points, and aperture as low as ~3.5 which felt kind of counter-intuitive to shooting landscapes. It was very hazy when we flew (time of day was surely a factor), so many of the flight shots took quite a bit of processing to remove haze – which also left a lot of noise, but overall I was happy with the results and think I did the best I could have done, given the variables that were in my control. The views were phenomenal, the light was magical, and that flight is something I’ll remember for the rest of my life.

Oh, I also got to fly the plane for about 10 minutes. Woop!

Even though I took my 14-24mm and used that for quite a bit of my feet-on-the-ground shooting, I still preferred my 18-105mm kit lens for the flight and for general shooting – I even bought a new one before the trip, since the motor on my original one died. I shot with that one on the flight, and think it was a good choice (otherwise I’d have gotten wing/tail in the shots if I had used the wider angle lens).

Before and after the flight, I was toted around in a super luxurious SUV by my very patient hubby who would stop on a dime to let me shoot anything and everything I asked to. As you can image, there were a lot of stops. I forgot how much I enjoy shooting photography – and how it gets my adrenaline pumping, watching the light change and planning out my shot.

After the trip, I took another week off and spent it re-learning Lightroom (which has changed since the last time I was in it), and sunk a lot of time into culling / selecting / processing this week. It was cathartic for sure. Out of the roughly 650 photos I shot over the 6 days we were there, I managed to select only 28 as my top shots. That process of narrowing it down to the creme de la creme is always the most difficult part (not that any of them are Nat Geo worthy). I do think I’ve gotten better about re-shooting the same thing 20 times over in the same way, though, which makes processing faster (otherwise I’d have had 5k photos).

I’m sure we’ll visit again. We didn’t quite make it to the Valley to see (from the ground) the things tourists go to Yosemite to see. We actually sat in traffic for about an hour and a half trying to get there before heading back to Fresno for our flight home, but ended up turning back because we were running out of time.

I’d definitely recommend this time of year to visit – everything is so alive right now. However (!!!) I’d avoid the Memorial Day weekend. We were glad we were on our way out as the resort and area filled up. It was a night and day experience from earlier in the week when we felt like we had the whole place to ourselves.

Enjoy Yosemite through my eyes (including the crazy one)!

Getting Started (and Succeeding) on Upwork

About 10 years ago, I started writing html/css for friends of mine, and slowly started branching out to getting paid gigs from contacts I had made during my time as a PowerSeller on eBay. It was pretty exciting to me to be able to do something that I loved for pay, without investing in inventory anymore! When I realized I could code full time, I knew I had to do something more than rely on sporadic paid contracts. That’s when I signed up for E-lance and oDesk (since then, merged and now called Upwork). Although I haven’t done any contract work in the last couple of years, I still have an Upwork profile.

My first project was for a fairly simple html/css site, for a design & development company in the UK. I was paid $15/hr for that project, and a number of projects that followed after that one from the same client. Granted, it was 10 years ago – but for two reasons I was okay with this pretty low hourly rate:

  • I was inexperienced!
  • I was new to Upwork and had no feedback
    (Coming from the eBay community, I recognized the impact social credibility has on consumer trust.)

After about 6 months, I increased my hourly rate to about $20. I continued reassessing my skill level every few months, increasing my rate as I grew as a developer. During that time, some of the contracts I had established went away as happy customers, while others stuck around for years. One of them eventually hired me as a full time software engineer – B-Stock Solutions, a fully funded, established Silicon Valley PaaS company.

My advice to people starting out on Upwork:

You will probably be paid less than what you think you are worth in the beginning – learn to be okay with this.

What you are earning when you start out as a contractor is both money and experience. While I do not suggest doing work for free in exchange for experience (unless it’s for a cause you believe in personally), I do suggest that there is a tremendous amount of value in gaining experience. It is an investment into your future – if you continue to grow as you work. Which leads to my next point

Apply for jobs that are slightly outside your comfort zone.

This sounds a little sketch, I know, but stick with me for a minute.
I started out basically knowing how to build html tables…yes, I was fairly clueless about web dev…but I knew wanted to learn. I knew I was excited to learn. I knew I would put in the time and energy to learn. And I knew I needed the opportunity to learn. You can only build so many to-do lists with node before you hit a plateau. You need to build real projects. By apply for jobs that are slightly out of your comfort zone, you commit to learning because you are under pressure of performing for a client, which dominoes into your reputation and reliability as it will be reflected in your feedback score – thus affecting any future potential. If you don’t thrive under pressure, maybe don’t follow this advice, but it definitely worked for me.

Remember that taking a job and getting it done doesn’t necessarily mean you are being paid the entire time you are working. Upwork has a desktop timer that you’re required to keep running as you work. This is what tracks your time, and the time you will be paid. I would often turn it off when I got stuck on something I would not have, had I been fully qualified for that task. I probably turned it off too much – but my integrity was more important to me than a few bucks. And again, that was an investment in my future self

(Thank you, past self for spending that time – it paid off!)

Spend time writing job applications – canned or generic applications end up in the trash.

Depending on how many contracts I had in, I would spend anywhere from 30 minutes to 2 hours every night searching for and writing proposals and highlighting what skills I had that would benefit the employer. Check your spelling. Check your grammar. Be detail oriented, because how you present yourself here is most important to getting the opportunity to do the job. Remember first impressions are important, and all you have are your words. Choose them carefully and skillfully!

Canned/generic applications end up in the trash – Now I am on the other side of the virtual table, hiring contractors from Upwork. Working for a successful company, I get a lot of applicants when I open up a position. I have to figure out a way to sift through the 100+ applications sitting in my inbox. Those that use generic proposals make my job easier because they go right to the trash.

Create and maintain a professional portfolio.

Spend time on this. Put projects you’ve worked on in your portfolio (if not under NDA). Summarize what your strengths are. Describe how you contributed to those projects you worked on as part of a team. If you don’t have assets you can share directly on your Upwork profile, link to your github in your profile. Add a professional looking headshot. You don’t need to get one done in a studio, just put on some nice clothes and fix your hair. Oh, and please don’t put up the pic your friend took of you drunk at the beach, or one where I can not not-notice your cleavage. Seriously though.

Provide great customer service!

This is not always easy. Some people are hard to please. I had several clients that were just plain difficult. In those cases, shoot for parting ways amicably – ultimately your feedback score will be carried with you for the long haul, so do what you can to get out of a bad situation in a way that harms no one, including yourself.

In my first few years as a contractor, I would make myself available almost 24/7. I was not on-call, but made it a priority to take care of my clients’ needs. If I got an email on Saturday morning at 7am with an emergency, chances are I’d have it resolved in a couple of hours – at the very least, I’d respond and say this is what I can do, and what you can expect. Transparency is important. Honesty, reliability, trust.

Stick with it.

It’s not always fun, and it is definitely not always easy. You will have long, stressful nights/weeks/contracts. It can also be extremely rewarding, if you put the work into building your satisfied client list, many of whom will keep coming back to you for more projects, or refer you to others they know that need work done. Keep at it, and keep growing!


Through pouty morning lips I exhaled the night
A soft breeze kissed my cheeks
My mind drifted off
into the monsoon grey sky
Until the final call of a lotus
Pulled me back to the ground
Then turned lifeless at my feet
I’m sorry, I said,
this is the way of life
We live, and we die
The world
I hope you made the most of your time.
A crumpled leaf stirred
With which I fashioned a blanket
Laid him to rest in sun-scorched grass
Took a drag of my cigarette
And through pouty morning lips I exhaled the night.